January 10th, 2012 I never thought an inocent photo of me was going to cause so much emotion between the male public of the spinchat community. A couple of days ago I registered in the site to meet people from all over the world, make new friends and have some interesting conversations; now I don’t know if I made the correct decision about the web page.
Some 3 years ago I had used that site without any registration and I thought it was fun. I found people from almost everywhere which made me frequent the site every now and then. It’s worth saying that not all the characters one find there are nice. I dare say with some strong arguments that 80% of men there are just for rubbish talking and sex related chats, and the 20% left are truly nice guys to talk to and mature enough as to have some productive conversations.
I was saying that the photo I uploaded has caused a romp and the comments I get by it have nothing to do with sanctity.
I wonder what that photo has that incites to sin and lust…I see nothing weird in it, it isn’t even a nice photo, is way too amateur and I was about to go to sleep when I took it with my cellphone.
For a matter of respect I am not even mentioning the kind of comments I have gotten for this picture, but they have quite high erotic content. Those are the things that make me think of men as idiots that believe they are truly men when they show their appetite in the most vulgar and shameless way. Thank God we women are smart enough to handle this faults without die trying.
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oh, sorry to hear about those people you’ve met. Those men are some of many f—ing idiot over the internet. I’ve encountered people like that before on other site too and so disgusting.
That is why, they’ve lost their mind,lols..
Anyway, your photo here is so beautiful! very captivating
Can I have a copy of your picture here!
Blessed day! 
I think its a fab photo and you look great! I dont see anything erotic there atall but then I’m a woman and we look at things differently dont we.
You are an attractive woman so you will get a lot of attention on friend sites, its just a shame most men on those sites are only looking for ‘a bit of the other’ rather than friendship…idiots.
You’re pretty, Miss Lego. That attracts men but they misbehaved by saying something not related to your pic. You have done nothing wrong. The men are behaving wrongly!
you are beautiful and this is a very sexy photo, partly because you’re laying in bed. that doesn’t justify men behaving badly…
It’s a matter of a simple math. Picture of pretty girl + Internet= Men making unwanted catcalls. It is almost as if immature men can’t handle a picture of a pretty woman. Especially since most, if not all the men that commented would never say what they written over the internet to you in person. For most men the register for spinchat or other sites like that are not looking for friends but other things and that is sad. I hope all goes well in the future for you and they give you the respect you deserve.
LOL Saggi, you make me laugh and I soooo agree when you say f___ing idiots,lol, they truly are. Get the copy as you wish my dear!
Hi Mama Syder, thanks for dropping by. Yeah, a shame, I mean, what are they thinking? Oh, and thanks for the compliment
Hey Dangerous Linda, I agree, that is not enough reason for them.
Hey Mister Smalls, thanks for you view, it is good that you as a man show us from your perspective what a male mind processes in this kind of facts. What you said has lots of sense and you are right, I don’t think they have to guts to do that off line. Thanks for the respect
Hey Balqis. Thanks for your comment my dear, although I do not consider myself pretty but well, thanks anyway. Men tend to misbehave most of the time, am I right? lol
mr. smalls indeed has it right. the internet is worse than walking past a construction zone for attractive women. but it’s always worth taking note how people behave. the fact is that men who act this was are very frightened of women and the world, i believe. they don’t know how to act like grown men becuz they have never learned. instead, they have learned bad behavior and haven’t evolved past it. they are probably violent people, if not personally, then in support of policies for ‘others.’ i’m sorry if i sound like i’m reaching too far, but modern day culture is very paternalistic and violent. we bomb people every day and are told to believe it is right and okay. we regularly hurt the weakest in society socially and economically. might makes right in our official culture. that’s how ‘society’ has been in the west for at least 5,000 years. it’d sure be nice to change, but people would have to get off their ass and remake society. (sorry if i rambled, especially on a fist visit:)
Hello Miss Lego, New one to comment with your permission.
Not all men..don’t be so rude…we men having bigger heart as compare to women..It’s not my words, this is a fact….:)
Now the thing is, where you upload your picture..if you upload in your blog…there is 0.00001% chance of any wrong comment on your nice picture…if I’m not wrong.
And some people (including some women also, may be less but include)have tendency to misbehave with others and no one can change their behavior…so better thing is not to talk or behave over friendly with them because that’s their nature.
You didn’t do anything wrong. I do think the best thing to do is stay away from such sites and just stick to the ones you find like-minded people in. If only 20% of the people you meet there are nice, then you’re better off meeting people elsewhere…
Hi Ed Pilolla, you have not rambled at all,in fact you have given some more insights of this type of behavior and your thesis is quite simple and true. The way you explained things might be true and if you look at if from that point of view there are hundred of chances that is the case. Thanks so much for your contribution, it is quite helpful.
Hi Inaam, thanks a lot for your comment. For me it is always good to have people like you saying something interesting and productive about what I blog. An yes, you might be right, not all men, I clearly said 80% so there is certain percentage out of that bunch and those are the ones worth of a friendship. Thanks for droping by.
Hi Isadora, yes it is a shame. The thing is that it can happen any site you log in, that’s for real, but you are right, perhaps another deep research for better site could be something to do. Thanks for dropping by.